NEWSFLASH: WE ARE GOING AFTER THE WRONG DRUG!!!!Yesterday, I had the privilege of escorting my daughter to court for the awarding of her official driver's license. The Commonwealth of Virginia is the only state in the Union that requires this for new drivers under the age of 18. In this area, the ceremony is led by the judge who heads the Juvenile & Domestic Relations Court for this part of the state. The whole thing lasted about two hours and was chock full of factual information. Some of it I knew and some of it was totally new to me. I guess things have changed (and not for the better) over the years. Some of the statistics quoted by the judge were shocking and sobering. Some of those facts follow here.
Every day, on average, 11,318 American youth (12 to 20 years of age) try alcohol for the first time, compared with 6,488 for marijuana; 2,786 for cocaine; and 386 for heroin.
Alcohol is a drug. It alters your mind, body and emotions. It is also our nation's largest youth drug problem, killing 6.5 times as many young people as all illicit drugs combined.
Children who are drinking alcohol by 7th grade are more likely to report academic problems, substance use, and delinquent behavior in both middle school and high school. By young adulthood, early alcohol use was associated with employment problems, other substance abuse, and criminal and other violent behavior.
Young people who begin drinking before age 15 are four times more likely to develop alcoholism than those who begin drinking at 21.
Teens who have a blood relative who suffers from alcoholism are 50 (yes 50) times more likely to develop alcoholism.
The costs to the United States of underage drinking is substantial. The National Academy of Sciences (NAS), Institute of Medicine released a landmark report to Congress in September 2003, "Reducing Underage Drinking: A Collective Responsibility", found that underage alcohol use costs the nation an estimated $53 billion annually, including:
Violent Crime: $29,368,000,000
Traffic Crashes: $19,452,000,000
Burns: $189,000,000
Drowning: $426,000,000
Suicide Attempts: $1,512,000,000
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome: $493,000,000
Alcohol Poisonings: $340,000,000
Treatment: $1,008,000,000
TOTAL: $52,788,000,000
The average age when youth first try alcohol is 11 years for boys and 13 years for girls.
It has been estimated that over three million teenagers are out-and-out alcoholics. Several million more have a serious drinking problem that they cannot manage on their own.
Annually, more than 5,000 deaths of people under age 21 are linked to underage drinking.
The three leading causes of death for 15- to 24-year-olds are automobile crashes, homicides and suicides -- alcohol is a leading factor in all three.
Approximately 25% of the alcoholics currently in the Virginia Court System are between the ages of 17 and 21, with the largest majority of that number being female.
And here's a little synopsis of the ceremony we attended today...as prescribed by Virginia law:
Court Licensing Ceremonies
To help new young drivers in Virginia learn about the legal responsibilities that accompany the privilege of having a driver's license, all license applicants under the age of 18 must appear with a parent or guardian at a court licensing ceremony to receive their driver's license. The ceremony is conducted by the judge of the juvenile and domestic relations court district in which the juvenile lives. Each ceremony is usually attended by 75–100 juveniles and their parents or guardians. Each judge has discretion in the design of the ceremony. These ceremonies serve to educate juveniles and parents about the risks involved in underage drinking and impaired driving and the legal consequences of violating the State's "use and lose" law and other laws related to underage drinking and impaired driving. Police officers may appear at these ceremonies as guest speakers to discuss the consequences of drinking and driving. Before receiving his or her child's license, a parent must pledge that he or she will not give the license to the child until they have discussed a strategy for handling potential drinking and driving situations. This action makes the parent an active participant in the process and a partner with the court. Community coalitions have successfully worked with the juvenile courts in Virginia to develop and implement such a program. An example of such a coalition/court collaborative effort is "Children at Risk Today" (CART) in Chesterfield County, Virginia (Police Executive Research Forum, in press). This strategy has not been evaluated.
YES.......I still have the new license in my possession. We have had numerous talks already on this subject and will definitely have a big one today. No open dIscussion=no license. Mom's rule and Mom's pledge to the judge.

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